STaying in love...

Is it possible to stay in love for as long as life exists? Are the vows till death do us part still making an impact on lives from the setting of the sun to the rising of the same?

My mother was on one of her globe trotting stint for about 10 days. She came back sometimes this week. Even though people wonder whether people stay in love any more, I saw the love of her life all excited that she had come back. You would think someone won the lottery or a million dollars.

I am no expert at love but one thing I know is that people do stay in love...even if it is thirty years on.

21 questions....

I have been going through a rough patch lately. Some of my friends are going through mountains and valleys of their own. Fortunately or unfortunately, the source of most of our drama is members of the human male society. However, In the midst of all the madness, something came to me. For as long as I have been in this relationship rollercoaster ride, I have been told to write a list of the things that I want in my kinght in shining armour. The list should be heartfelt, things that make me work. There should be my uncompromised list and things that I will willing to cut him slack for.I have written the list thrice over now and I believe the fourth re-write is about to be made.But this time, the list wil be about what I want him to have and those things are the same things I am willing to give to him. Depending on the spectrum from which I write, this note could be the 21 things I want in a lover by ALanis or 50 Cent's 21 questions.By now the question asked is what would I want in my man?The answer is simpleMy man is like a red sports carSleek smooth and sophisticatedMy man is like DstvSo much moreMy man is a horseStrong and yet stunningly beautifulMy man is a waterfallFlowing and powerfulMy man is a smile


I have been going through a rough patch lately. Some of my friends are going through mountains and valleys of their own. Fortunately or unfortunately, the source of most of our drama is members of the human male society. However, In the midst of all the madness, something came to me.

For as long as I have been in this relationship rollercoaster ride, I have been told to write a list of the things that I want in my kinght in shining armour. The list should be heartfelt, things that make me work. There should be my uncompromised list and things that I will willing to cut him slack for.

I have written the list thrice over now and I believe the fourth re-write is about to be made.But this time, the list wil be about what I want him to have and those things are the same things I am willing to give to him. Depending on the spectrum from which I write, this note could be the 21 things I want in a lover by ALanis or 50 Cent's 21 questions.

By now the question asked is what would I want in my man? The answer is simple.

My man is like a red sports car
Sleek smooth and sophisticated

My man is like Dstv
So much more

My man is a horse
Strong and yet stunningly beautiful

My man is a waterfall
Flowing and powerful

My man is a smile
Warming my heart

My man is a ray of sun
Gently caressing my skin

My man is a mango
Tantalizing and succulent

My man is like a remote
I just need to push the right button

My man is like my watch
Ticking to the beat of my heart

My man is river
Charting his course to my sea

My man is a fence
Protecting that whcih I hold dear

My man is all this
And so much more
But he still is
My man!
Are you my man?
Am I your woman?